This was so hard to write- I kept getting in my feelings over how truly incredible BKF and B&R is. The marriages we have seen firsthand go from ready to divorce to fully devoted and strong is so encouraging and gives us a reason to keep going. We can't imagine a life where we aren't leading people through B&R because it is a game changer. Scott and I just started leading our 4th group of families through the Blended & Redeemed book and every time is my new favorite. On the first night we have a group of strangers walking in with all their hurt, frustrations, and sometimes honestly, they're ready to walk away and quit...but they leave a very different group of people. Each week they're sharing struggles from life and reflections and ah-ha moments from the book, so relieved they have a group of people who understand. From that first night when they voice excitement over finding a Christ focused community who understands where they're at to the end of the book when they share how far they've come and the growth they've seen in their marriage and parenting, it is all amazing. This was so hard to write- I kept getting in my feelings over how truly incredible BKF and B&R is. The marriages we have seen firsthand go from ready to divorce to fully devoted and strong is so encouraging and gives us a reason to keep going. We can't imagine a life where we aren't leading people through B&R because it is a game changer. As we walk through the book alongside them, we can reflect on where we were when we first found BKF and how much we've grown and strengthened our marriage plus getting little reminders of where we can work in things to continue to grow. Leading small groups has even blessed our children as they've been able to connect with other kids who understand the challenges they're facing, and it has been fun to see our girls grow in leadership as they encourage others in the same positions. The B&R book and small groups has led to us building this whole extended support system in our church community for blended families and now we get to do monthly events for the wives or husbands to connect and encourage each other even outside of the books. We have Pastors who grew up in blended families telling us they never even realized the need for support until they saw the growth in the couples who go through the book. Being in a military community we land on the higher end of blended family statistics and love that God planted us here to share that there is a way to blend families successfully and focused on Christ- bonus the transient nature of the military means the B&R book gets in hands that travel!

“Blended Kingdom Families has offered us hope that we didn’t have previously. Without that friendship, without this ministry, without these conferences, without the podcast, our relationship would look entirely different with our child’s biological father. Honestly, our marriage would look drastically different because when we go to these conferences we’re encouraged, and our marriage finds hope.”
“We were having so many challenges, so many difficulties, and we were desperate for answers. We were desperate for help, for community... This is literally an answer to our prayer.”
“So many lives are being drastically changed, and now we’re one of those couples. We want to see other couples like us, who went from hopeless to hopeful.”

“This ministry has changed our lives, our family, it has brought so much fruit and so much joy to us just by having access to it. We support BKF in every way that we can. I can’t imagine a better way to be the light, and I’m so proud to be able to be a part of this.” “BKF is a movement... blended families rising up and stepping into the power and the identity that Christ still calls us to. I think that’s really the battle cry that we’ve gathered from BKF is that 1.,we are not alone and 2.,it can be done.” “There’s not a ton of resources for how to be a kid in a blended family, and that really spoke to my heart because our kids are so valuable to us, and we want them to have every chance at success.”

“We know we have the tools now. Even going through the book, if we have something that’s bothering us, we can use it as something to ease us into a difficult situation, where we have to sit down and talk about it. It’s no longer arguing, it’s coming to a resolution in our eyes.”
“It’s not divorced and remarried, it’s delivered and redeemed, and that’s what we are living on. We’re delivered from our decisions and redeemed through our walk with Christ.”
“I feel like this (BKF groups) has given us that tool to step out into the community and really be involved, to be leaders and continue to grow the BKF family.”

“Having biblical principles that we can utilize and practice that align with our faith is completely life changing, because as we’re moving toward the path of marriage, it’s kind of like premarital counseling where you are setting the ground work to make a stable and steady home.”
“The conference was gold. It was a lightbulb moment for me. It was like, “Oh, I can navigate it this way, or this is how God designed things to be. “It gives me a tremendous amount of hope to know that BKF is here, and that all the resources are here, and also the confidence that we’re going to have a successful marriage.”